Expressing One’s Truth – Subjective vs. Objective Reality

Human beings are expressing on a regular basis but are they expressing their truth? One must know their truth first which requires some introspection and then one must choose to express that authentically rather than revealing a masked version. When contemplating one’s truth and the bigger topic of truth itself we get into a myriad of linguistic limitations. With this in mind I am going to begin with the idea of absolute truth first before getting into subjective and objective views of reality. 

Absolute truth is synonymous with universal truth in the context of this article and the work at PHI Inc. When speaking of universal truth the only language that can purely describe these absolutes is the universal language of numbers. So, unless one has an affinity and innate understanding of numbers, the ability to communicate about absolute truths will be imperfect and hold the innate relativity of language. An absolute truth is a fact that cannot be changed. It transcends the time-space continuum, thus it is true at all times and in all places. It transcends the individual perspective, thus it is true no matter what for everyone.  

Absolutes exist at the level of oneness which encompasses all. The oneness is a part of the trinity including the group and the individual. I will explain the trinity more in a bit. The oneness is where universal truths reside and it is this that I speak of when I reference the “Isness”. It just simply “is”, it is absolute and it is unexplainable with language. Thus, in this language written article I will move on to discussing objective truths which are an agreed upon truth from a collective group perspective of reality and subjective truths which are individually particular in nature.

But first, I would like to expound upon the idea of the trinity in relation to humanity and these three different perspectives of reality. In its absolute form and speaking in the universal language, the trinity is the number 3. Once we begin to utilize conversational language we are getting out of the realm of absolutes and into an objective or subjective description of reality. My definition of the trinity is as follows:the human trinity is a three way breakdown of the different vibrational bands of a person. In english, I would label these the Individual, the Group and the Oneness. Each of these energy fields has its own distinct formational framework and creative dynamics within humanity. 

When it comes to the absolute truth of reality, you will only find this within the oneness and source of all. Truth radiates from its source in gradations to lower levels of truth and the next vibrational band we encounter is the group.  Here is where we find observable facts and objective reality. This means that something is actual and it exists independent of the mind. This is the “real” world within the time space continuum. The correspondence theory applies here as truth is looked at in terms of the relationship of the concept to the actual, physical world. 

Authentic expression of one’s truth from this group perspective relies upon observable facts. The first part of this is the observer, we all have an observer part of self. The clarity of your observer part is relative to the clarity of your connection to the oneness and absolute truth. Remember truth radiates, thus this group energy field is a complex array emerging from the oneness. One’s ability to clearly observe facts and one’s willingness then, to express those facts objectively will determine the authenticity of their expression. 

As we radiate to the third and final vibrational band, we find ourselves within the individual energy field. This is where subjective reality, the lowest level of truth, exists. An individual’s subjective perspective is formed through the body, heart, mind and spirit systems. As an individual processes the energy of living, the interpretation of these experiences is what forms one’s individual truth. Thus, a person’s beliefs, opinions, senses, emotions and personal feelings are all incorporated into their subjective view of reality.

The individual energy field is where the “story” of a person’s life takes place. Everyone has a “story”, an accounting of their life experiences from their uniquely subjective vantagepoint. The Coherence theory applies here as truth is evaluated in terms of interconnected belief. A belief is true if it is consistent with other beliefs we have. I would expand this to include all of the individual systems’ (body, heart, mind and spirit) information. It is one’s beliefs, emotions, instincts and sensory perceptions that all intermix to create the matrix of one’s life story and subjective view of reality.  

As one lives, continually having more experiences and processing more information, one’s subjective view will ideally evolve and expand. But this requires consciousness to question the validity of one’s beliefs, emotions, feelings… as new experiential data is being received. Holding onto rigid beliefs creates a narrow view of one’s life, blocking access to the more expansive, objective view of reality that the group energy provides. As well as blocking one’s clear view and connection with absolute truth, the universal wisdom of all. 

As the individual is the furthest radiation of the light, the original purity of absolute truth can feel out of reach. Yet, remember universal truths are always present as they transcend the time space continuum and they exist within all time and are in all places. As such absolute truth is always available to every individual, at all times and in all places. This breaks down the beliefs individuals often have that they need to….do something or go somewhere or create the time or go through another person or institution…to experience the purity of life and the universe.

I would like to make a note on the fact that energy is always in motion, as such if growth is not occurring then decay is. Decay in this regard can look like progressive disease, disorder and disarray within the individual energy field as connection with one’s source and alignment with universals becomes more and more limited. Sometimes it can appear on the surface as if nothing is changing, the same thing keeps happening repetitively. 

The aspects of repetition that are life sustaining and simple maintenance of life, like drinking water everyday, are in sync with the flow of evolution. Yet, repeating life inhibiting patterns of belief, emotion… will perpetuate a flow of decay as these patterns limiting truth will become deeper and denser with each repetition. The further along a decaying framework is, the harder it is to turn  around and the greater the energy required to restore a perspective of truth that holds the test of the trinity.   

Now let’s look at the authenticity of one’s truth relative to the trinity. Expression of one’s individual truth will hold authenticity provided the individual believes it is true. But it remains limited to being an individual’s subjective perspective. To test the authenticity further we must move closer to the source and evaluate the truth relative to the objective group view. If it doesn’t hold here then the truth represents a limited perspective, one that blocks the individual from access to a deeper, purer truth. The exception here lies in innovation, where the individual brings something new to the group at large. If the truth does hold within the group energy, then one’s observer part is working well and one’s subjective interpretation of life is in alignment with an observable factual reality. 

The final evaluation comes when the truth is viewed comparatively to absolute truth and universals. This requires communion within the oneness and intuitive assessment. If one can bring their individual view of reality into the expansive oneness, beyond language, and it remains unchanged then it holds the test of the trinity. A perfectly pure and authentic expression of one’s truth will synchronize and harmonize all three bands of energy. 

Truth is the consciousness that illuminates the energy of life in motion. Thus, through the process of evaluating your personal truth and subjective view of reality, you can reshape the “story” of your life. And if you expand to include the group energy, your story will have objectivity and relativity within the time space continuum. Not to mention you will have a clear group view based on facts and observations and you will be equipped to navigate life with greater ease and conscious choice. And if you expand further to include the oneness, encompassing the whole of the trinity you will know the purity of “truth” itself, remember we are beyond language here. 

Synchronizing these views of reality is one aspect of authentic living in universal balance. The human trinity from an energy view is three vibrational bands forming the individual energy field, the group energy field and the oneness energy field. When in balance the perspectives from the three vibrational bands remain distinct, yet they line up perfectly like three sides of an equilateral triangle. Thus, one’s individual subjective view is aligned with an objective group reality and both are aligned with absolute truth. The trinity is a foundational concept in understanding truth and accessing a clear view of reality. It is through alignment with the trinity that you awaken to the truth of who you are and can then authentically express that truth within the world.

Human Equality – End the …ISM’S

Human equality has been a subject of intense passion for me since I can recall. The inherent equal value of every human being has been such an unquestionable truth in my mind that the state of affairs in the world, displaying such gross contradiction to this left me quite perplexed as a youth. I remember studying the Holocaust in depth, in middle school. I chose this topic of study in an extra class where we had freedom to research an area of interest. I suppose this was an odd topic for a twelve year old christian girl. But through this experience, I made a decision to spend my life supporting human equality.

Within humanity we have the Universal Declaration of Human Rights which states each human being’s right to equality and yet the world is filled with inequalities and ism’s. An ism is a prejudice or discrimination on the basis of a (specified) attribute. The complex differences among human beings provide an unending array of attributes subject to prejudice. But these differences are superficial and they represent a small part of our humanity compared to the overriding universal sameness that we all share.  

Orienting myself in a perspective of universality and devoting my life to the study and practice of universal principles, to bear witness to the world at large, not to mention my day to day observances of inequalities has been heartbreaking to say the least. People’s fears and insecurities override, block and distort their connection with a universal view. This leads to competition and hierarchies that close people into small entangled realities, perpetuating an endless struggle. Fighting one’s way out is a hopeless quest because the fight keeps the cycle going. 

So how do we escape this fate? Stop struggling. Stop accepting a stance of less than. Stop fighting to be better than or prove you are better than. To whom are you trying to prove your worth? See a person’s humanity first, then address their differences with a proper perspective of the secondary importance of those attributes. Have the courage to stand up for what is right, oppose the narrow view of any ism. Think about your own differences being persecuted, being viewed only as the embodiment of a subtle trait you possess and having your basic humanity denied. This is the reality we will continue to live on the earth as long as the critical mass supports it. Are you a part of that critical mass or are you an agent of change towards the realization of our universal human rights.

Individually we can all feel small and unable to affect change in the massive problems of the world, but I know my presence contributes to that critical mass, one way or another. An important note on not choosing; critical mass works such that a non “vote” defaults to the majority choice just like in an election. So if you take yourself out of the group decision you are inadvertently supporting the ism’s that we see creating so much pain and destruction. All I, or anyone, can do is one’s part. The question I ask myself is am I doing it? Or am I lost in the world of ism’s, giving into the critical mass and becoming a part of the problem. I want to make sure my part is one supporting universal equality for all. 

Looking at a person on a physical level, the DNA coding from person to person is 99.9 % the same. All the ism’s, the unnecessary pain and suffering and struggle is over .1 % of who we are as individuals. Falling into this small narrow view is like being 99.9% Unconscious. So the next time you find yourself having a judgement over differences, remember you are ignoring almost a hundred percent of what is present, in front of you. Do you really want to miss out on experiencing that much of life? I know I don’t. So I try to learn from the differences I see in other people and cultures, without forgetting that we are fundamentally the same in our makeup. I remember that the creative principles  governing our lives are the same, we are embarking upon the journey of life together, walking on the same foundation and building our lives out of the same basic elements. 

The creative models that I work with are shaped in the structure of the platonic solids, the universal forms of equality and balance. 

A Platonic solid is a regular convex polyhedron. It is constructed by congruent (identical in shape and size), regular (all angles equal and all sides equal), polygonal faces with the same number of faces meeting at each vertex. Five solids meet these criteria: Geometers have studied the Platonic solids for thousands of years. They are named for the ancient Greek philosopher Plato who hypothesized in on of his dialogues, the Timaeus, that the classical elements were made of these regular solids. (wikipedia)  

It was not by my conscious design that my life’s work in energetics would be based on forms built from equalities, a deeply committed passion for me since I was a child, but it’s funny how things work out sometimes. 

The understanding of these universal forms models as keys to accessing and directly interacting with the forces of the universe was understood in Plato’s time. This knowledge was taught in mystery schools and passed down through the generations to the present day. Today there is a mass of information and mystery school teachings available to anyone who can access the internet. Most people simply don’t understand what this information is or how to use it. It provides the fundamental keys to understanding and tapping into the unified field and source energies. This knowledge has lived on in human interest and study but has been largely lost to the scientific community. It is the design of the set of models that I have built with the help of many, over the course of ten years and updated in their integrative workings the past three years.  These models are utilized for ReBalancing Clinics and healing sessions.  

The forms of the platonic solids are the elemental building blocks upon which our reality is designed. This includes physical reality, which can be out of sync or in conflict with our emotional, mental or spiritual level of reality at any given time. Things in reality have form, these different levels of reality are simply vibrating at different frequencies and are experienced differently but the basic elemental form remains the same throughout. It remains the same from person to person as well. Take the form of the human body. While each is a unique manifest form, the basic elemental form of a human being is almost identical, with small variations – recall the .1% DNA difference. The basic structure and shape of a human being is universal and built from these universal forms.  

So where can one access these universal forms? They exist at the edge between the inner and outer realms, the meeting place of energy with consciousness. It is the place of the notorious “veil” between realms. From my perspective, lifting the veil, means clearing the lenses of the universal forms of reality to be able to perceive clearly. An important point to remember is that we are constantly changing, moving within a time/space continuum, our bodies are made up of tiny moving particles. Form in the sense I am speaking is not a static immovable thing, it is dynamic, like the human body. If one perceives holistically this active ever changing reality that is our life is what becomes clear. 

In action the forms are the essential elements constructing life, giving universal structure and shape, forming an evolutionary energy flow moving matter always back to balanced equality. These universal forms provide access to the forces in the universe to transform the construction of life. Aligning to these basic universals opens one to the purity of source energies. It is the use of our freewill within any realm of reality that empowers us to effect change within our lives. If that change is to align with equality based principles then it will align with the universal forms, the platonic solids.To overview, working with these universal forms in any application will re-establish a foundation of balance and equality. It will set the energy flow of change in motion to realign the structure and shape of life to these elemental equality based building blocks. I want to make one final note on working with the universal forms. The inner and outer realms are a perfect mirror reflection of one another. Thus, change in one realm is reflected in the other. What this means is that inner work effects change in your outer life and vice versa.  So I encourage you all to open to the wisdom of the universal forms. I encourage you also to live with consciousness, remember your humanity and see the whole person when you encounter others. If you can see how alike you are and how small the differences then, you are beginning to get the bigger picture. And you are contributing towards a critical mass that ends the ism’s.

The Essence of Unconditional Love: LOVE 101

WHAT is Unconditional LOVE?

Unconditional love is simply the essence of love itself without attaching particular conditions that distort or limit the flow of love. So what is Love? From an energy perspective, love is a force, it is a connective force holding each of us, our relationships, our families, communities and humanity as a whole together. 

Our lives are dependent upon love, just as we are dependent upon the gravitational force to keep us from flying off into outer space, love keeps us from entropy(unavailability of energy & disorder in a system). We are all subject to the forces in the universe, love is only one, but love is the one we have the most control over. So why does love seem like such a mystery? 

WHERE does love happen? 

Everybody needs love, whether they want it or not. So if love is a force, how do we access it, where is the love? Is it in the heart? We are certainly flooded with the idea that love resides in the heart, along with other romantic notions of love. One train of thought says that love is a conscious decision rather than a feeling by which one is overwhelmed, so is love in the mind? Many associate physical intimacy with love, which implies the body while still others claim love as an altruistic force of the spirit. 

I would say the body, heart, mind and spirit are all equally valid examples of the different levels one can experience connection within oneself and with others. A holistic love would include all these levels. And speaking in more quantum energy terms love is the connective force residing in the space between the particles. It follows then that love happens in the area between the individuals, it is the force bringing and holding them together. This force is ever present and available to us, so why are we as humans longing for connection?

WHO do you love?

Who do you love? …yourself, family, friends, pets, humanity? There are different types of love connections but they all begin with you. The depth to which you are loving yourself is the depth to which you are capable of loving another. The limitation of conditions placed on self love become your primary limitation in sharing love with others.  

Is the love different if the type of bond is different? When speaking of the essence of love, the pure connective force, it is all the same energy. This is an important thing to remember and an ideal goal would be to stay unconditionally loving of all in each moment, placing no limitations on this. I can hear all the yeah but… statements in response to the idea of “unconditional” love of all. So I will make one distinction to hopefully ease most of these reactions. 

Particular conditions placed on love are different than setting healthy personal and relational boundaries. These don’t need to interfere with the essence of love, as they are a love based creation. Healthy boundaries are structurally foundational, creating the platform and space for the experience of life and love. So keep the healthy boundaries in place and keep the love flowing through. 

WHY do we need love? 

Understanding why we need love allows us to make wiser choices about pursuing love. Speaking from an energy perspective, love is one of the universal forces governing the shape of our human lives, our survival is dependent upon it. We have a number of survival based forces in addition to love, all operating often subconsciously. We seldom think of love in real survival terminology, but my point in doing so is to remind you that the source of your drive for love is that basic and primal. 

No wonder people can lose their heads and act so out of character when it comes to love. This primal drive is why people fall prey to the romanticized fairy tail vision of what love is, sometimes pushing away the real love in their lives because it doesn’t fit the preconceived idea. It is why so many have allowed mistreatment in relationship as an unavoidable part of the package. The present day “me too” movement is seeking a correction to this long standing problem in society. These are simply a couple of the traps we fall into as humans trying to master the force of love. 

But,…I don’t know HOW! 

How do we love? We choose to. Each individual organism has agency to utilize their life force at will. To somewhat over simplify one’s free will for this context, the movement generated by one’s will is either creative or destructive. If it is creative and life sustaining, it is love based. If it is destructive, it is not.

Moving beyond the initial choice to love we get into the nuances of that choice. If we want to surpass the distortions and limitations, to experience the universality of love, it is imperative that we have clarity of our motivational drives. These drives are governed by our free will and energy sourced by the force we call love.

A good quick way to check one’s motivational drive is to ask three questions: Is this choice aligned with a position of self love? Is this choice aligned with a position of love for those I am connecting with? Is this choice aligned with a position of love for all whom may be affected in the rippling of my experiences? If you can answer yes to all three, then your motives are aligned for embodying and expressing unconditional love. Next, we take action accordingly.

When we are open to connection, we are loving. When we receive another by seeing them, hearing them or hugging them, we are connecting and thus loving. When we are authentically being ourselves, the force of love is supporting this. When we share the vulnerability of our authentic selves with others we provide the opportunity for connection and love, it then becomes the others’ choice to receive this or not. 

Why would someone choose not to receive an authentic expression from another? Many things can get in the way. Two key blocks to love are FEAR and JUDGEMENT, clearing these is the individual work one has to do. But interpersonally miscommunication is the key to muddying the waters of love. 

The language of love: Let’s talk a bit about communicating love and language. The universal language is numbers and in this language, the vibration of love is zero. It is the infinite potential, the space holding all of existence and the vibrational rate of unconditional love. 

Interpersonally though the way we express our love to others and the way we prefer to receive love from others is different. The popular book The Five Love Languages addresses these differences and miscommunications of love. The five different love languages are words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, gifts and quality time.  Knowing how you and those you are connected to love is valuable information necessary for clear communication and increasing the force of love.

Once experiencing love in the moment, the next challenge is sustaining this in loving relationships. Living in a constantly changing environment, our love based bonds need energy to sustain them. Here we get into the psychology of love. Love’s interpersonal components of passion, intimacy and commitment. This comes into the nuances of active love. Time and energy  focused on negotiating these areas with another is what will increase the depth and strength of the love based bond.  

To summarize, the essence of unconditional love is a creative force, the governing force we have the most control over with our free will. It is a connective force that our survival depends upon. We can access and make use of this force by simply being present and open, by connecting with ourselves, others in our life and life all around us. We can increase this flow by overcoming fear, releasing judgment and communicating love in a way others can understand.